Daniel, one of my 8th grade summer school students, is bright, charismatic and handsome. He gets along with other students and does well when he comes to school. Unfortunately, “when” is the keyword for Daniel as getting him to attend summer school has been a struggle.
Daniel missed the first week of summer school and became part of our class on Monday, June 15th. He came regularly until Tuesday of that week when he stopped showing up. Ms. Goodman, a Sutton Middle School teacher, called the phone number on file for him the following week and spoke to Daniel’s father. The Father was surprised to hear that Daniel had not been attending school. Although he apparently does not live at Daniel’s house, he found out that Daniel had not been attending because he wasn’t able to wake up in time to catch the bus.
My co-partner, Tom, decided that not waking up in time to catch the bus was not a good excuse for Daniel to be missing summer school. So he did something about it.
The next morning, he called Daniel’s house at 7:00 AM to wake him up. He found that he was actually waking up Daniel’s mother who wasn’t too happy about the early wake up call. Tom asked to speak to Daniel to make sure he was up. He was. However, Daniel still missed the bus that morning. At least some progress was made, though: Daniel got up in time to make the bus, but just didn’t make it out to the bus stop in time.
The next morning, Tom went through the same routine. He called Daniel’s house, the Mother groggily answered the phone and passed it along to Daniel. This time, Tom made sure that Daniel was out at the bus stop ten minutes early… And by some miracle he made it to school that morning!
Much to the Mother’s dismay, Tom has continued this wakeup call routine every morning. If he doesn’t, Daniel doesn’t come to school.
Even though Daniel began to attend school regularly, it was clear that he does not get enough sleep at night. He fell asleep almost every class. It didn’t seem like he was trying to be rude or disobedient, he was just genuinely tired. Once, I asked him to stand up in the back of the room to try to keep awake, but he fell asleep while standing!
Last Wednesday, when Tom made his routine morning call, the Mother answered the phone and said that she was giving Daniel the day off. Tom tried to explain that Daniel had already missed a lot of school and that the high stakes CRCT was less than a week away (the exam Daniel must pass in order to go to high school in the fall). Unfortunately, Tom’s explanation was to no avail. Daniel did not show up to school on Wednesday.
On Thursday, when Tom called Daniel’s house and the Mother answered, Tom said the usual good morning and asked for Daniel… But she hung up the phone. When both Tom and I tried to call back no one answered. Daniel didn’t show up again to school that day.
Tom and I are trying to give Daniel’s Mother the benefit of the doubt. Perhaps she works the night shift and that is why she is too tired to make sure Daniel attends school. However, the whole situation is very frustrating. Daniel has a lot of potential, but this potential cannot be realized if he does not come to school and is unable to stay awake during class.